Training in the Shadows
When I started Wrestling I had no ideas and nothing to look forward too...I needed Wrestling as a way of self preservation aka self defense.
At 51 years old there's a lot of "Used to Be's" and "Could have beens'"........
A lot of my old training partners have given up on life and resemble a bag of milk or a bowling pin.
When I started Wrestling you just had to be good enough for the neighborhood or as good as the other schools around you.. You competed against the local schools or the competitions you could drive to. In the New England area we had what was called the Bay State Games so you could wrestle year round. I was never a great wrestler but I was a tough night out when my mind was right due to my conditioning and physical strength.
Nowadays you gotta compete with the BEST in the World on YOUTUBE!!!!
You're expected to be as good and look as good as the guys on Instagram....Students wanna know why you're not as good as that school in Belgium or have as many students as that school in Ohio...
Students think that the highlight reel of that school in California should be every night here! There are so many teaching combatives/self defense via social media with huge subscriber numbers yet many have no real world validity or experience...
But they sure know how to market themselves and work the alogorytham.
Thank you YOUTUBE, INSTAGRAM and REELS for making us look less of a Coach due to those mesmerizing videos you guys post capturing that moment in time when you looked and performed so perfectly. That moment in time you are at the top of your game...
Or my favorite!!!
Acting like you found or created an NEW MOVE or RARE SUBMISSION...Sorry we were doing that crap in 1992.... and as for CROSSFIT type stuff... LOL... WE WERE CROSSFIT BEFORE CROSSFIT WAS COOL.. SORRY THAT'S THE TRUTH.
Nowadays everyone's competition is a click away on various social media platforms...
My advice is to just DO YOU as best as you can.. Stop thinking that a coach in Australia (using a filter) is your direct competition. If you continue to listen to this media shit you will kill yourself trying to out do these other people... Stay focused..
Some key words:
Train, Learn, Discipline, Consistency, Work Ethic, Patience, Humility &
DONT BE A DIRTBAG!!!
I hope this sheds light that just because a Coach may not have a huge platform doesn't mean that he doesn't have a proven track record/resume while training daily in the shadows.
-Coach Machine out.
I BRING RECEIPTS DAILY
I only speak on things I know, not that I've read or practiced but on things I'VE ACTUALLY ACHIEVED. There are far too many "posers" today speaking on things, giving off the impression that they have done certain things when they have no validity at all in said subject they're talking about.
I can't stand this crap.
Make believe is for kids not grown up adults.
I believe in transparency and integrity thus I only speak and teach on things I've actually got skin in the game with.
Was I a great Judo player?
NO, but I didn't do too shabby either.
Here is an account from my Coach of MAYO QUANCHI JUDO club.
My name is Serge Bouyssou and I am the head instructor at Mayo Quanchi Judo and Wrestling. I have been the world team coach and US Olympic team coach on several occasions. It takes a very special person to do judo and participate in my program. For the average person, training here is unbearable.. It is difficult for most people to last in our program for even a short period of time. Our team has been at the top of the nation multiple years in a row. After coaching for such a long period of time it is easy to recognize a special person/athlete when you see one. One of my most memorable students is Mike Bruce. From the very first day he stepped on my mat, I knew he was special. It was clear that combat sports were meant for him. He loved to fight and win or lose he never gave up. In the 1998 Connecticut State Championship Mike Bruce broke his wrist in just his second match. Like any sane coach, I was ready to withdraw him from the tournament. He refused to let me do it, instead, he simply wrapped some tape around his wrist and continued to fight. It is something I have seen only in great champions. The average person would have given up. But, the fighting spirit is instilled within him would not let him quit. During practices he strived to be the best he could be every day. His drive and fighting spirit encouraged everyone in the room to push hard. Mike portrayed all of the characteristics to be a great leader. This is why i am positive that Mike will be a great coach and mentor for all he comes in contact with. His courage and the will to win is what lead him to a gold medal that day and his vast experience on the mat will help him to help others as a positive role model. I wish I had a hundred more kids just like him on the mat. After judo everything else in life is easy.
Sincerely,
Serge Bouyssou
Mayo Quanchi: Judo and Wrestling
#judo
Receipts and Facts
Make it stand out
I only speak the truth, I am not a fake, I don't exaggerate nor play make believe.
I only bring receipts and facts. Below is a testimonial about my time in Marine Corps boot camp, Parris Island Platoon 2170 Hotel Company.
"You were a young man with incredible vision to succeed and I was honored to be your drill instructor that continued to test your toughness and mental strength. I trained over 400 male recruits and your were the best young man that I have ever met. You were physically fit, emotionally strong, and the most deserving to ever earn the title "Marine". I am the one who benefited from knowing you. I tested you daily and you never failed to amaze me. You are a remarkable person and a true gentleman. The world needs more people like you.
If I had a regiment full of Mike Bruces, I would not be swimming in shark infested waters."
Take care my friend and god bless you and your family.
SgtMaj Ricky Stroud.
Make your job the thing you love
For the Entrepreneur (doesn't matter what type of business)
My 18 years of running a small, private Personal Training gym.
The Business:
Make your job the thing you love.
Then your whole life is the thing you love.
-Believe in your own stuff.
-Show people you can help them by actually helping them first.
- If your schedule isn't full your prices are too high.
- If your schedule is too full your prices are too low.
-The more hands you shake the more money you make.
-The cheat code is you make $ by solving "THEIR" problem.
- Only solve a problem for someone that you've solved yourself.
-I'm not fake and this why I'm damn good at what I do.
- Charge more, get used to people saying NO. Eat it on the way to another person saying YES.
- Provide the service where they get the results you promise by achieving the results yourself.
- You need to be the IMAGE of what you're selling.
- Live what you're selling.
-You should be telling everyone how great your business is. You should always be telling how great it is and how it will solve a specific problem.
- SELL IT TO ALL!
- You can't expect business to come to you. You're not a humming bird feeder, believe in yourself, promote it. Always selling.
- Solve one problem to make money. Come up with one problem that you have fixed YOURSELF. Now offer that solution to all. You fix their problem with your solution.
This is what to do: List the wins you've stacked, then offer something FREE aka EBOOK/video. Put the link to your website for them to contact you, get their email.
-To get leads DM every person that likes one of your posts, EVERY ONE. Send DM's to people who already like what you're posting.
- Post 2 videos per day about the business on all of your social media.
I've been going for over 18 years now and still standing strong.
You can do the same thing.
I started with hardly any money at all back in 2008.
Own your day and always forward.
Coach Machine out.
Guard your mind!
Our mental piece is the one thing no one should be able to take from us.
But, sometimes we find ourselves being "mind screwed" by some Demon and thus we end up being controlled by said entity.
When I speak of a Demon I'm not meaning in the spiritual realm, I'm not here to tell you how to believe or what to believe. I'm referring to a physical entity that you give power to. This can be eating a bunch of crap and then resembling a bowling pin or a bag of milk. A good example is Alcohol, some can drink and have no issues while others become raging dumb asses and take the drink knowing what evil is about to come their way.
This demon can also be another person.
I've been battling a demon, a real life Black Widow, a Dark Passenger, that had its claws deep inside my mind and screwing with my mindset on a daily basis.
We need to GUARD our mind and we need to guard with all our strength.
No one should be able to have control over our thoughts. When we allow these demons into our life we thus end up giving them power over us.
I struggled with this because since I was 26 years old I've never let anyone control or have power over me. No one, not a friend, not a woman, no one. Owned by no one, do what I want, when I want and how I want all within the legal laws of where I live.
I started slipping due to the hatred I had for this demon, it was consuming me.
I had to finally get to a place where I had to let it all go. No matter how hard I trained, no matter how many extra reps I did this demon was still "skull screwing" me and making my life a living hell.
Finally one night I had finally got the "slip" aka loss of my mental control over this situation. I then had an epiphany with myself and gave it all away!
That very moment I was f'n done.
No more!
I remembered who the frig I am, what I am and what I stand for, I got my vibrations on a high and released the demon from my mindset.
I wished no ill will and gave forgiveness (which to me is that I finally got to a place where I just stopped giving a crap about this demon and the situation)
I only have so many craps to give and given a crap is expensive.
Since that night I have had no more issues if this demon is brought up.
I don't even think about this demon any more.
I feel at peace and my mindset is STRONG GUARDED back with a clear eyed view and as always moving forward and owning my days.
Keep your vibrations high and be mindful so that you are paying attention to catch your "slip" early.
You'll thank me for it.
Machine out.